Are You On Sale?

All day long I talk to people who act as though they are on sale - and I don’t mean FOR sale, but ON sale.  I can spot it anywhere because I used to be on sale.  I was on sale in every area of my life - career, relationships, financially, emotionally - you name [...]

Be Selective

It has been my experience that one of the keys to happiness in all areas of my life, is to be selective about what I allow into it. This does not mean I demand perfection - I only get to do that when I am perfect and I’m not holding my breath on that one.
 
However, [...]

Who Are You Being?

This is such a great video that I had to share it with you. We talk a lot about the person we want to be in the world but I don’t think I have ever heard this message put more eloquently than in this video. It is about 15 minutes but it’s fun, entertaining, valuable [...]

Creating Extraordinary Relationships - Step #7 Raise Your Vibration

You will attract what you put out there. If you go out into the dating world and dwell on the fact that there are no great, available men left or you run through in your head the last miserable date you went on, you are going to attract more of the same. We are all walking around on a certain vibration. If you are desperate, frustrated that you can’t find Mr. Right, or not feeling all that great about yourself, you may be falling at about a 5 on a vibrational scale of 1-10. Guess what, that’s exactly who you’ll attract – another 5. Not what you want, right?

Creating Extraordinary Relationships - Step #6 Take Responsibility

Ownership of a problem takes guts and integrity and 9 times out of 10 it opens the door for something better to emerge. No matter who you are with, what type of relationship you have, or what kind of person you are, you play a significant role in whatever is going on in the relationship. You are responsible for it going well just as you are for when it is not going so well. Ask yourself “How am I contributing either positively or negatively to this relationship right now? How can I make it better? What positive energy am I capable of introducing into the relationship today?”