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Knowing is safe. Knowing is comfortable. And, there is a part of our nature whose very purpose it is to keep us safe. So, where knowing equals safety, not knowing can often be uncomfortable and for some, even paralyzing
You will attract what you put out there. If you go out into the dating world and dwell on the fact that there are no great, available men left or you run through in your head the last miserable date you went on, you are going to attract more of the same. We are all walking around on a certain vibration. If you are desperate, frustrated that you can’t find Mr. Right, or not feeling all that great about yourself, you may be falling at about a 5 on a vibrational scale of 1-10. Guess what, that’s exactly who you’ll attract – another 5. Not what you want, right?
Ownership of a problem takes guts and integrity and 9 times out of 10 it opens the door for something better to emerge. No matter who you are with, what type of relationship you have, or what kind of person you are, you play a significant role in whatever is going on in the relationship. You are responsible for it going well just as you are for when it is not going so well. Ask yourself “How am I contributing either positively or negatively to this relationship right now? How can I make it better? What positive energy am I capable of introducing into the relationship today?”
Decide whether you like someone before you worry about falling in love with them. Most people are so focused on finding the right person that they fail to look at all of the little qualities that make up who a person really is and they realize 5 months later they are involved with someone they don’t even like.
Why is it that whenever there is a problem in a relationship, it is blamed on lack of communication? Probably because lack of communication leads to about as many problems as, well…money. Of course it is no surprise that the problems about money are rarely just about money and usually have more to do with how we communications about money. So what does it take to improve communication in your relationship? I offer these 7 tips:
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